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There is a familiar saying that people come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. I understand the sentiment and I even believe it. Some people arrive quietly and stay only a little while. Others settle themselves into the landscape of our lives so completely that eventually we cannot remember what…
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“Live in the momentdon’t get olddon’t judge peoplebecause you can’t be free if you judge peoplelove nowcreateinspire You’re always doing what’s in your heartYou can’t get away from your heartbecause life is a paradoxit’s a mirror of confusionso love NOW” — Matthew Silver
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The ninth anniversary of your passing came and went on July 25th. Today, the 28th, is the anniversary of your funeral. I hate July. I hate that you and I weren’t as close as I desperately wanted to be, that somehow we grew apart, but you were always there when I needed someone I could…
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I snaffled this recipe from a foodie blog years ago. The blog doesn’t exist but I love this recipe. The measurements are USA equivalent. (yields 24 cupcakes) 3 ¼ cups of plain flour3/4 cup unsalted butter, softened2 ½ cups sugar3 large eggs, at room temperature6 tbsp red food coloring3 tbsp unsweetened cocoa1 1/2 tsp vanilla…
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This cake has been baked for birthdays and special occasions in my family for literal decades. It became so famous in our friendship circles that even friends of friends started asking my mother to make it. It’s my standard birthday request from Mum these days, I don’t ask for anything else. It’s literally just a…
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Yes, I am ready for that conversation. TikTok is currently discussing the hypothetical scenario of a man “allowing” or “not allowing” (ugh) his girlfriend to go out with five male friends. He is driven by fears of what could happen to her—after we move beyond the victim-blaming and the assumption that the woman is a…



